There is a lady I met and I’m considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very … lol.. “hungry” and opportunistic to me.
The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by “fast fooding” each time we meet.
Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I’m hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn’t know yet.
Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely…she said she was “disappointed”.
I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I will give her. She pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention to the things I want her to see in me…like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature.
Her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her… i wont even talk to her about it.
Please can this type of lady ever change after marriage?
